A family trip to the theme park may conjure up thoughts of rides, treats, and all around family fun. But as many parents will tell you, summer heat, long lines, and pricey extras can quickly turn your trip from magical to miserable.
Cater to the kids.
Half the fun of a theme park is watching the kids experience it for the first time. The misery comes when we grownups try to inject thrills the kids aren’t ready for (as in “You’ll love Space Mountain. It’s not scary at all”) or devote hours to lines for attractions only one parent will be able to ride. Consider the stage the kids are in and enjoy accordingly. The big rides will still be there for you to enjoy together when they’re older.
Don’t try to do everything.
Setting the alarm clock and rushing around on a schedule is way too much like a job. Choose a couple of things you consider “must-dos,” and then let the adventure take you where it leads. Think of it as leaving things for next time. Echoes this tip “Take your time and don’t push your kids beyond their limits (take a break if they need it even if it means you’ll get one less ride in).”
Take time off.
Anyone who’s endured an over-stimulated kid knows there’s truth in the saying “You can get too much of a good thing.” Gone with the Family shared their experience with us on Facebook, “we always found that taking a break mid-afternoon and heading back to the hotel for a swim and some down-time was the best way to avoid meltdown.” Some quiet time spent swimming or even lounging in the pool will recharge everyone for more “fun.”
Know when to forego the vacation touchdown and accept a punt.
It’s easy to lose perspective, as in “No, we are not going swimming! We paid a fortune for these passes and we’re going to stay here until we’re done!” Remember, it’s a vacation. When all is said and done, what you paid for is a good time. Be prepared to change courses to keep it that way. Jacob K. agrees, “the kids always set the pace. Don’t be the parents dragging your 3 year old around telling them that you spent all this money and you are going to [do this activity]. They don’t comprehend it and it just angers you.”
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To avoid giving into purchasing pricey impulse treats, Lorraine S. packs individual fanny packs for of her family members with their favorite candy and healthy snacks. “Let them eat from their packs at will. This makes for a very happy child with less stops for food.”
Jacob K suggests a good way to save money while teaching your children about budgeting, “give them a gift card that works at the theme park and let them know that when the $ is gone there is no more. It puts the burden of what they buy on them.”